Wednesday, October 10, 2007

Not only is spring in the air, but the feeling that Deric is coming home is too!
Everything feels like its almost here. I hand my thesis and three other assignments in on Monday, then I only have one more to hand in by the end of next week… my exams start November 7th and I will be DONE by November 14th. About two weeks later Deric is here and our holiday begins.

On the Kailey front – she started to crawl last Friday. I was at playgroup and was just saying to the group ‘I am not going to rush her, she must do it all in her own time’ just then she got up and crawled to a ball she had her eye on! She is not rushing around using this newfound independence. I don’t think she quite knows how far she can go. I am glad however that I have implemented the word NO in her vocab, and it’s proving quite handy now.

I decided that at 8 months Kai must now start sleeping on her own. She can only fall a sleep in arms and although my most favourite thing to do is to put her to sleep, I felt my plans of weaning her when she is 16 might be a little far fetched. So I started controlled crying. It was not half as bad as I thought it would be she cried 30 min last Monday, Tuesday she just went to sleep after I put her down, Wednesday she cried 30 min and that was the last of it! Done no issues. My little girl is growing up!

Also some good news is Kailey got her SA passport – so basically the US passport took 14 days and this one took 6 months – not bad going.

I had someone say to me that I must have so much time since I am a stay at home mom, he basically insinuated that I am lazy and do nothing with my days! He is a bit of a prat, but I started thinking. A lot of people feel this way, and they feel that it’s a cop out in life if you stay at home to raise your children. BUT if I went back to work and hired a nanny to take care of Kai, would anyone call the nanny lazy?
This is the best job I have ever had, and I would not change it for the world!

3 comments:

Unknown said...

I totally agree, Jo. I wish I could stay home full time with Aidin, but part time will have to do for now. Of course, I get more rest on the days I'm in the office than when I'm home with him. :-)

Best of luck on your exams!

Anonymous said...

Rasing children is difficult. (I can only assume for now.) Good for you for not letting that comment get to you. I saw an article which estimated the value of a stay at home money monetarily, and it came to $115,000 a year salary. I am glad to see you all are doing well. Hope to see everyone sometime soon.
Love- Rachel & Trip

TW said...

Hurray for Deric's homecoming!!! That is fantastic news.
And you are 100% correct about the nanny vs. stay at home mommy thing. You are too smart to get caught up in that nonsense anyway. That is why we all love you so much!